You matched with her. You got her number. Now the pressure begins: what do you text?
Most men overthink, send the wrong messages, or worse—get left on “seen.” Texting is where attraction grows or dies, and a single wrong message can ruin everything.
Here are the 7 texting secrets that make women reply fast—and keep the conversation going.
1. Never Start with “Hey” or “What’s up”
The most common mistake men make? Sending the most boring openers:
❌ “Hey.”
❌ “What’s up.”
❌ “How are you.”
Women see these a hundred times a day. You don’t stand out.
👉 Instead: Start with something from her profile or your last conversation. Example:
- “So, did you survive your Monday coffee cravings?”
- “You said you like hiking… what’s your dream trail?”
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2. Tease, Don’t Interview
Most men text like it’s a job interview:
❌ “Where do you work?”
❌ “How many siblings do you have?”
❌ “When’s your birthday?”
That kills attraction. Women want playful energy. Tease a little, add humor. Example:
- “You like pizza with pineapple? Hmm, this might not work out between us 😏.”
- “You really believe you’re better at karaoke than me? Dangerous claim.”
3. Use Emojis the Right Way
Emojis add tone. Without them, messages feel flat or even cold. But don’t overdo it.
Good: “Wow, you really cooked that? 🔥👏”
Bad: “Hiii 😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥😘😘😘”
Balance is everything. A few well-placed emojis = charm. Too many = cringe.
4. Timing Matters
If you text instantly every single time, you look desperate. If you take days, she loses interest.
👉 Rule of thumb: Match her pace. If she replies in 5 minutes, you can reply in 5–10. If she takes hours, don’t reply instantly. Keep the rhythm natural.
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5. End with Hooks
Many men end texts with nothing to reply to. Example:
❌ “I had fun today.” (dead end)
Instead, add a hook:
✅ “I had fun today. Next time I’m picking the spot—deal?”
✅ “That sushi place was good, but I’m still thinking about dessert… got any ideas?”
Hooks = guaranteed replies.
6. Flirt, But Don’t Overdo It
Compliments are good. Over-compliments are not.
Good: “You looked amazing today, I’m still smiling.”
Bad: “You’re the most beautiful, hottest, sexiest woman I’ve ever seen in my life 😍🔥❤️.”
Women love subtle, confident flirting. Leave room for curiosity.
7. Know When to Move Off Text
The goal of texting isn’t to text forever—it’s to meet up again. If the vibe is good, suggest something casual:
- “We should grab that bubble tea you love.”
- “This conversation deserves wine. When are you free?”
Women respect men who take initiative.
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Final Thoughts
Texting is not about being perfect—it’s about being playful, confident, and interesting.
- Avoid boring openers.
- Tease lightly.
- Match her timing.
- Always leave a hook.
When you do this, women reply faster, stay engaged, and actually look forward to your texts.